Yes, yes I *have* told him what I want. I've told him I'm scared, told him that for so long I had to focus on letting him work out his own crap that I didn't really have a chance to deal with any of this. My *only* real requirement for our R is honesty. I don't want to ever leave things unsaid; this is what KILLED our M before.
So to be fair, H is just confused, probably as confused as I was at the beginning of all of this. I'm willing to give him time...I just need a little understanding as I go through this.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
