Why would you call 8? What would the purpose be? That is the key here. To know why you are doing what you are doing. Will it help the R if you call? If so, do it! I think what you missed in all this (and I've done the same) was the opening for some real discussion about communication. You got defensive rather than validated her concern (again, been there). "Wow, communication certainly is a valid concern, how do we improve on it? Let's discuss it and work on it together!" Instead you defended yourself (again, understandably). Will your "error" have much affect on the sitch? Probably not. Will there be other opportunities? Yup. Even here you can approach her and tell her you have been thinking about what she said and agree communication would be a great thing to improve, let's do it! I've certainly kicked myself when those opportunities slip away, or actually I shove them away, because I've pridefully believed I HAD TO state my side. It doesn't work. Learn from this and carry on, my friend!
