I guess I will have to add myself to the list of people that can't read minds - oh woe is me \:\(

Sorry, but we can't know what you want if you don't say it. I would refrain from saying a lot of things. Primarily because (1) it didn't really matter one way or the other and (2) it wasn't worth the hassle. Now I don't do that anymore. If its bugging me, I say it. I don't "assume" H knows what I am thinking or what I would like. And, I can't assume what he is thinking either. If he doesn't say it, it doesn't happen. Plain and simple (is there such a thing?)

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)