Still in the fight

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came home tonight, things were going pretty well, a 180 that got her attention, but then the wheels started to come off.

I had told W earlier in the week that we had overdrawn, and paycheck was going to cover it , but not to use the debit card or checks, put it on the CC.

I had been working on the home computers for awhile, and tonight came home with a wireless router(~38.00) From the moment I went to hook it up, I could tell she was stewing about something, then she asked how much it cost, and said that she thought we didn't have any money.

I calmly appologised for not talking to her about it ahead of time, and explained that I was not worried about CC, only Checking account. I said I thought we should sit down and talk about it and her reply was there are lots of things we need to talk about, and the whole problem in our relationship was a lack of communication, "DUH"(her words)

I told her I was sorry, and I could see how she felt that way, but that communication was a two way street, and I felt all alone, like I didn't have any help. She said if I wanted her to get a job, I could have asked, and that she had tried to get work. I told her that I know she had tried and I was just as upset when it didn't work out but not for the same reasons. I told her I wanted her to go back to work because it is what she wanted to do, not because I wanted her to.

I did not raise my voice, or contradict her. She started to cry and then left and drove away.

DO I CALL HER? I want to let her know I am concerned, but I don't want to seem clingy.

Let me know.