No, we cut you no slack. EVERY time you come to bed you should look like that centerfold. EVERY TIME! And you need to be READY!
YOUR period? What does that have to do with anything?? It is just an excuse after all.
All this emotional crap? What does that have to do with anything??
Okay. We are done. Welcome to piecing.
From a REAL MAN (and your H I hope):
Don’t ask is it okay how you look. Tell him what a ‘period’ really means even if you did before. What does he need to do during this time? Does he know? Educate.
No, communicate. Look him in the eye. Your H is normal. He does not understand. Educate him.
You do not ‘suck up’ anything. Sucking up means silence. Silence means no communication. No communication means ….
You were PISSED? Did he know it? If not, you were silent? Silence means no communication. No communication means ….
Are you scared as you say? Did you share your feeling with H? If not, were you were silent? Silence means no communication. No communication means ….
I know “I’ve changed, but H? …. How can I trust……” Is that in your control or his? Is trust an issue? Did you share? If not, were you were silent? Silence means no communication. No communication means ….
You are doing great girl. Piecing is so, so hard. Harder that I can ever understand. But many of us would trade to be in piecing in a minute………….
What I am suggesting is that sharing your feeling a little at a time is good. A little at a time – men are dense. We men are dense, very dense. Be patient and communicate.
