Muddle, you can't read minds either? Is this becoming an epidemic! I wonder if they keep doing these things to prove that we aren't up to it or are they hoping that one day we will be? If our S's really believe that we are inadaquate and want another more fulfilling R then why do they keep "testing" and getting pissed when we don't come through? If they are so detached and through with us then why the anger on their part? Just some thoughts I sometimes have when I think of this issue in my sitch.