Yeah, the supper thing is pretty lame. I think it illustrates her biggest issue with me. That I don't read between the lines well enough. I "should" have know that she was feeling stressed and was trying to avoid the additional stress she puts on herself figuring out things like dinner. Instead I frustrated her and I stressed her out even further, more signs that "we just don't work together." Clearly. But how about we take responsibility for our own part in this? Why not try and figure out how to communicate better? What's there to lose? Being right about not working together? Don't want to lose that now, do you? Oh, I forgot, I'm the one with the problem communicating! Sometimes I wish she would run off and have a relationship with someone else so she can recognize that she is responsible for a lot of the unpleasant dynamics in our relationship. Oh well, enough for now.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
