faithful had some good points, I especially like the overanalyzing....you can paralyze yourself with it (or mind reading). Good luck on the interview, at least you getting some hits! Question regarding the friend, why are you friends? If it's toxic....maybe letting it go? I have a friend in a new R and sometimes it's a little sad for me, but I just tell her (she knows my sitch) and then we move along. Just a thought. Have a great weekend.