Still in the fight

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TO and Muddle;
Thank you. My fear is not only the loss of my spouse, but injury to her as well. Additionally, it is the loss of my family.

Sorry just a down day, thought stopping right now.

What I really need is/are ideas for GAL, I know that sounds weird, but I enjoy my work, go to the gym on a regular basis, am involved in projects around the house, active in professional committee work, active at church, have always been involved with the kids and their lives, enjoy reading and do so often, go out to dinner w/ friends, have reconnected with some family and friends, but other than the reconnection, I already did all of that.

One of the few things my W has said is that she wanted someone she could share her whole life with, not just part of it, and that we never spend time together just us. Unfortnately she is right about that part. I don't see how GAL on my own won't reinforce the thought that even now I will/am do my own thing. At the same time, attempts to do things together get shot down with the exception of some rare times with the two of us and the kids.

Now she has started a new job and does not get home until after 7 PM 4 days a week.

Like I said, just a down day, went to start her car this AM and couldn't miss fed-ex box from OM, V day present. She was off today and going to visit some friends wearing clothes from OM, got home late last night and couldn't come in for 10-15 min because she was talking to OM.

Can anyone spell DETACHMENT, I can't seem to figure it out.