B, (that is my new name for you; I like it better than 30) this all sounds so promising! The fact that you recognized when you were getting ahead of yourself and stopped it and the fact that your discussion with her was pretty light and more friendly than anything. Isn't it great walking away from talks like that knowing that you two can do it with a little effort? Its so much better than arguing and yelling and more constructive. If we could all just communicate like that, I don't think we would ever end up here. Anyways, I'm pretty excited for you! Friendship is the keystone back to that path of happiness! Keep up the great work! ps. was her trusting you ever brought up?
Me 31 WAH 30 M 5 Together 14 years S 4 divorced 7/11/07
