Happy Anniversary to the new and improved Brue!!!!
Once we get past the one year mark, we seem to have our own awakening so to speak.
We become more confident and secure in who we are and begin to take steps outside of our comfort zone. Perhaps this is the acceptance stage.
Maybe this is the part when we realize that as much as we love our Spouses we are going to be OK, in fact we will be so much better then just OK.
I also believe that after the first year is over, we actually become more attractive to those around us, even our WAS's.
No longer needy or clingy, no desperation.
Especially the women who were left behind. We have learned so much about taking care of things and fixing things that we thought were a man's job.
Now the focus is on us. Not our WAS.
We can be who we were meant to be and in some ways we can actually thank our Spouses, because I never would have become who I am today had he not flipped out in MLCland.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
