It's time to pull out of the rut

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Quote: My problem is that I liked my life. I liked my work, my home, loved my boys and loved my wife. Things were not perfect and they never are. But I was very happy with where our life had taken us. So I think of changes and moving forward and realize sometimes that the only thing I really feel is missing in my life is that person who used to share it with me. I do miss that....I wish WANTING my to share my life with Anne again was enough to make it happen, but I know it's not.


Bill - I feel EXACTLY the same way and appear to be in pretty much the same place as you. I am afraid that I cannot stop my D from happening no matter how much DB'ing I do. I want to still fight in the more 'traditional' way - ask her to go to C'ing with me, tell her this is NOT a decision of long term happiness for anyone, etc. etc. but not sure if that will do anything either. Maybe finally get angry....I have yet to even do that...just afraid it will push her farther away, but again, she is pushing herself. I just cannot find a way to enjoy anything - even my girls at times. The loss just continues to overwhelm me.