Hi Unloved.

I'd love to see what answer you get about the hugs etc because I'm the same. I'm letting H do all the initiating. The most I've done first is put my hand on his arm. It's hard to know what is OK and what isn't after DBg and being deliberately detached isn't it??

You sound like you are doing really well with everything - including your confidence!! Well done you. I'm sure you weren't a waste of space before and its great that you have your self confidence back. You can do anything if you try hard enough. You've proven that with DBg!!


I don't know about you but I do finally feel that the black days are turning out to be more dark grey instead

IP

M-43 H-42
S-11 D-7
T-19 yrs
M-15 yrs
Bombshell 9/17/15
Sep - 11/9/15