Ul - when you get into Piecing it feels weird cos you've spent so long following these rules - no R talk, no pressure etc - but now that has changed.
GO FOR IT!!! Remember to note if it's positive and keep doing what works.

You are so right too about not giving in - DB'ing takes FAR longer that you first think. I remember thinking when I had my bomb (in Sept 2005) that we'd be piecing in December 05 - well we didn't get there until about Dec 06 - just to show it takes more than you first think!! \:\)

You are doing really well though and I'm glad you're staying on the boards, yes there still will be dark days so it's good to have a source of support!! \:\) \:\) \:\)

Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.