I was not referencing your M, I was referencing your post. Can you not see the irony in accusing someone of being mean ... in a mean way? Maybe that is what you were going for and it was just too subtle for me. But I wonder if subtle meanness is really appropriate for someone going through a D. The message is bound to get lost, kwim? Sometimes, no matter how confident you are, how "alpha" you want to come across, how sure you are of your opinion, a little humility and soothing in your words is the way to go.
JMHO
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