Btw, I think after you've established their trust in your being a man, women totally dig a little boyish play.
Of course. There's nothing wrong with being girlish either. We all like to feel or remember that sort of fresh green new growth of horniness we had when we were boys and girls. The point I am trying to make is that our mature sexuality needs to come from strong perennial root stock rather than from throwing Miracle Grow on an old packet of seeds or a blighted plant. Those of us who are HD definitely need to hard prune back the diseased part of our drive but we should never ever forget that our sex drive does have a deep healthy grounded aspect. When we say "I will not stay in a sex-starved marriage" what we are really saying is "My root stock is strong and I will grow and bear fruit with or without your continued care. I will trust in the sun and the rain of the garden and refuse to leave myself to wilt neglected on your windowsill.".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
