Instead of giving him a huge "stop doing this" task like, "Stop being emotionally distant from me." How about, "Hun, would you be willing to say, 'Good night' to me and give me a kiss on the cheek before we go to bed?" Or instead of "You don't reach our to me at all" try, "Can we in the next week or so, plan a date night that we both might have fun in and agree not to discuss our relationship during this time?"
This is excellent advice. Tell him what you want. Tell him how you'd like him to behave. This is ALWAYS easier to take than being told your behavior is wrong, bad, annoying, etc.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
