Are you a HD man, or are you HD in the context of your M in comparison to your wife. The differance is important to coming up with a plan. Know thyself. If you feel you are a HD man, what makes you think that? What actions in the past, or other evidence (such as metabolic make up and physiological anaylsis) do you have for thinking you are a HD man. Do you want to have sex 2x a day at least, and 8 times on the weekends? Do you want it 6x a week? 3 x? Or do you just want it more then your W.
what can I do to control the desire for sex? This suggests that you are a HD man. It also suggests that its just sex you crave and has nothing to do with your W, how you feel about her, how she treats you or how she feels about you or the emotions she has to deal with during sex. I wonder how that makes her feel.
Without chemicals, there is absolutely nothing that can lower the desire for sex. Asking a man to lower his sex drive is like asking him to stop breathing. There is no on/off switch for the sex drive. It is on full power at ALL times.
Yeah I almost agree with you on this. .... Yep I agree. however in the context of a specific woman, its very easy to change the desire for her specifically. You just pick something you dislike about her and focus on it. Its called perspective control.
If there was some way to turn it off, I would LOVE to here it, it definitely would make life more bearable. If there were a way for me to have the body of Atlas, the money of Bill Gates, and as many wives as Soloman, While being able spend my days eating chips and playing video games, I would LOVE to hear it. Man life would be sweet.
seriously, We have been over this allready.
Everything I have ever tried actually makes it HIGHER! I agree with that too, wholeheartedly. Improving yourself, does in fact give you confidance,value/entitlement.
For someone who is obsessively focused on their own sex drive, but craves desire from someone else, it would seem more prudent to focus on what causes desire. That being said, Desire like you want from your W, is intended to perpetuate the species, and hold a couple together long enough to accomplish that. Seems you have accomplished that. Maybe you need to change your wants to something more realistic and attainable.
