we nearly lost him but he has pulled thru it and is now in his 6th yr of remission. He's the reason for our faith conversion.
That's why I believe that whatever 'complains' I have against my W, is a small thing compared to the crisis we had at that time. He's also mildly autistic btw. What could be worse?
Anyway, what I was trying to say in my previous post was that unless one accepts to strip away all pride and humbles oneself, solutions can be difficult but not impossible.
back in 2000, the stress level was absolutely unbelievable.... a fragile marriage, a terminally ill child with learning disability, living in a 'haunted' (yes, it's true believe or not) apartment, problems with in-laws, dealing with cancer-stricken father ....all contributed to the marriage breakdown.
The point happiness starts with yourself 1st. Once you have it, the happiness within you can spread to your loved ones....I'm still working on it and I firmly believe it works.
Yes, I do feel frustrated at times when my W does not behave exactly the way I expect her to BUT hey, that's not fair rite? Anyway, it forum is an outlet for me to pour my once-in-a-while frustrations
I could easily have written a book about it ...
Apologies again if you guys have problems understanding my posts as English is NOT my 1st language.
