He cuddles with you. Why? Cause he still loves you. Or at least he still wants you around on his terms.
So...let him move out. Detatch a bit.
Perhaps something like the last resort technique in DR might be appropriate. Read it. Let him want more time with you. Make him curious about you. Become interesting and available less often than he'd like.
You can't be at his beck and call anymore.
"I don't love you. Oh yes, come cuddle with me."
Nope, Ms. OB, you don't play that game anymore.
Start to GAL fast. This will make you feel good about getting u up in the morning. Start to 180.
