Yes. I don't think I can snap into "she's really his and not my wife anymore" mental mode that easily either.
I don't think you can turn the clock back. You are both going to be different people in your renewed marriage.
However, it's the stress and fear of losing everything that kills us. It kills me sometimes. I have difficulty figuring out my world without her. But it't time to find something inside you that might surprise you: a guy you really like and find interesting. Because at the heart of it we all wonder: what's wrong with me?
Nothing's wrong with us.
It's time to live with passion and delight.
I'm trying. Will you join me? We have everything to gain.