Sorry I have not been on the BB lately. Had some trouble with my login.
I would count the mobile bill coming to the home a positive. Call it denial, but I rather see things on the bright side. You can discount it later if you like.
Thank you for sharing the additional pictures of NZ. They look like paintings. Can you believe I am inspired to take up painting? I should add that onto my list of things to learn. Hey, if I am successful I will send you a painting of NZ when I visit.
As for your H being embrassed about answering about receiving a Vday gift, I find that amusing too. Shows he still may have a heart, no matter how small it is. And that he may be more aware that the sitch he is putting you in is not acceptable.
Thank you for sharing the song by Pete Murray. I am going to look into getting myself a copy.
I agree that watching an eps on tv that relates to your current sitch may open your H eyes to what he is doing.
Hope the above has not been too confusing due to the lack of quotes from your original posts.