Corri... how did you find those old posts? I, too, thought they were all gone.
cobra wrote somewhere back there
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I think he needs to strike a balance between exerting his own power in the relationship but holding short of making it into a confrontation that could escalate further.
If hd refuses to "get into it" with her no matter what she says, there will be NO escalation. Hd has 100% of the control over whether there will be escalation. It takes two people to fight... if hd refuses to jump into the pit, there will be NO fight/escalation.
