Cemar, this is what you should do: you should tell your wife you want a divorce-- today. Put that poor woman out of her misery. Tell her that you are tired of no sex and you're going to go out and find a woman who likes sex. Free her. Release her.
To keep b!tching about this marriage and refusing a divorce because of so-called religious principles is a TRAVESTY of religion! You are an embarrassment to others of your faith! Do you think God wants you to b!tch and moan and complain about your W on this board? What DO you think God wants from you?
If you think being married just for the sake of being married is a higher value than freeing your poor W from a husband who clearly has NO respect for her, judging from the way you complain about her... you've got it all backwards.
Staying in this marriage in the name of some religious value is a crock! I can't think of any religion that forbids divorce-- even Catholics can divorce under certain circumstances. Are you HOLIER than your church that you won't permit you and your wife this out?
Does she have any idea how much CONTEMPT you have for her? What does your church say about expressing contempt about your spouse day after day? Or are you sweet to her face and only come here to trash her?
