Cac:

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what makes you think that? don't you suppose that a low libido might be part of the reason that these men choose this avocation? They don't "control" it; they just don't have it. (or much of one).


I don't agree. There is an extensive evidence of Taoist/Buddhist practice that suggests otherwise. It is a re-channeling of sexual energy.

I don't know what priests do, but I think it is faulty logic to say that All priests don't have sexual desire, therefore, that is how they 'control' it.

Also, to say that "most 'thin' people are thin' because they don't have much of an appetite is equally erroneous logic. It simply is not true. There are a multitude of factors that go into this, and yes, some thin people ARE thin through superior self-discipline.

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The only thing you can control is how you act upon it. You can't just blink and make it go away.


Exactly. But Cemar doesn't have a problem with getting sex or even keeping testosterone levels down (say through MB). He has a very specific WANT of desire and affection from his wife.

That is a control (of another) problem. Not controlling his sexual desire problem.

Corri