7 weeks is way too soon, it took my H almost 6mths to say it once, and just recently, 10mths after coming back after one tearful (me) convo about him not saying ILY he said "you know I do,but right now I can't say it because if feels forced" .
My point is, and here I'm using words straing from my H (who also had an A) the he had to build on feelings he has and had for me, he came back without loving me, I knew it, he knew it. He also said how it felt odd being loving and ML so soon after coming from another R, and I respect him for that, I see that feelings can't be genuaine after giving so much of himself to ow, then coming back and giving as much to me, it can't happen that way.
When I feel it, I say it, without expecting him to say it back, without making it akward for him. Give your H time, he prob is also riddled w/guilt.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
