Well the 48 hours thinking time to answer my question ended last night. I decided to play it really cool and didn't ask for my answer or mention it at all. When I said I was going to go to bed H grinned. I asked what he was grinning at and he said are you waiting for something? I laughed and he then told me his answer.
It wasn't anything scary (hooray!!) It was really what I already knew - that he wants to take things slowly. He is afraid that he might feel uncomfortable or it might not feel the same and what that would do to the R - that it might spoil things. H is worried it might spoil things!!! It maybe sounds wierd but it was so lovely to hear that he doesn't want things to be ruined. We talked about it quite a bit and he promised me we would get there - PROMISED!!!! He also said it wouldn't make him leave if he did feel uneasy - he would just work it out with me. WOW, WOW, WOW!!!! I really think I can say that my D is busted! My H who wanted to D me 9 weeks ago has made me a promise and we can talk things through rationally, he is caring and loving and is making it clear he really wants this M to work and for us to live happy ever after!! H I love you x x x x! (still not saying it to him just yet so I'll post it here)
