My H and I have been separated for almost 7 weeks although for the past 2 weeks he has decided that he wanted to try to work things out. He told the OW that he wanted to come home and work things out for our kids. He has broke it off with her and me and OW even had a long talk about why it happened. They didn't get together until after we separated and she had separated from her H too. My H has been coming and staying at our home every nite since. He still has his apartment and says we shouldn't move back in together yet. I agreed with him. BUT he is over every nite! Not that I mind, but my problem is he has yet to say I love you, to me. And I haven't said it to him either. I don't want to make him feel like he has to say it and I definitley don't want to hear "I know you do". It feels like we are dating again, like a new love. I am just wondering if maybe he is waiting for me to say it first. I just don't know. He got me a card for V Day and it only said HVD and he signed his name. No love on the card. I did the same thing. Only a funny card. Am I doing the right thing or should I tell him I love him. I really want to hear those words again. He has been planning future things that involve all of us and that makes me feel good. Although after the first couple of days of talking about the R, we only now talk about day to day things. No past R talks anymore. Things are looking up.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
