I should add this sort of happened with me when my H pushed me too far on the "lose weight" issue. It got to a point where I realized that if my choice was half an hour at the gym and an evening spent watching American Idol (my guilty pleasure)and eating a bowl of lowfat ice cream or 2 hours at the gym, nothing but ice cubes for dessert and an evening of sex, I'd pick the former.


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