Thanks whatisis. Now to be Mr. Empathy and Mr. Detachment at the same time. It still blows me away how she wants to talk about those issues that married people talk about to me. All the money, job stress, friends, and of course the boys. But when it comes to romance and fun its off to her 37 year old BF. I found that out Tuesday. She's 26. I'm 28. Yep. I laughed. We talked about the sex we had and she said it was good but the same sex she's had for years. I was relieved. This just means it's all about her and I saw that. I needed to run almost four miles to see it bit I did last night. I am back on track with detachment and my little bout of pursuit is over. She will have to come to me now. I'll look for that book.