Thanks O, I can apply most advice to many situations any more. I am not sure there is such a thing as a dead subject anymore, things seem to keep coming back around.

I have been trying to keep up with your threads, sounds like you have had your hands full. How are you holding together?

I am not sure if it would bother me more or less(the neckless) if she didn't still live at home.

All of this aside, last night was a good night, No I didn't have my valentine for the first time in at least 26 years, but got cards and stuff from the kids. Just had good visit with W, that was enough.

There are these moments like last night, where I can really see things working out, then I have to fight like hell to not have ANY expectation of anything.

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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis