I don't want to dilute your main point, I just had a question for you that relates to my situation. If your W were to agree to have sex with you once per week, but it was an "I'll help you satisfy your male urge but I don't want anything in return (or after you ejaculate I'm rolling over and going to bed)" type sex, would it be what you want? I know my question is partly rhetorical, because I don't think anyone wants that (which is why I am puzzled that some people think that it an acceptable thing to offer).
I guess I am just looking down the road for you, and seeing something similar for me. I worry about your W "caving in" to your demand for sex once per week, but making it an exercise in physical release rather than love making. I could see that creating new resentment inside you, on top of the old because it doesn't really solve the heart of the issue.
Maybe I am just rehashing the old "just do it" argument. The NOPs (and others) were apparently able to use scheduled sex and the just do it even if you don't want to approach and it eventually led to sexual desire in MrsNOPs.
Ramble ramble ramble
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
