Thanks Chaflo;
I have the same feeling but that in itself is a sign that he's not completely sure of what he's doing. I agree I need to stay dark and that is what I will do. I know that I am doing everything I can to bust this divorce and that gives me confidence in my abilities to have a healthy relationship be it with my husband or not. Patience is the resounding word.

Interesting our bombs were dropped around the same time - November last year. I hope you too are looking after yourself.

Sweetpea