Hope, agree, agree, agree...if H's were stand up family men...we would come first!! I believe everything needs a second chance...especially a family!! This thought hits me daily b/c I am a teacher and I see first hand the differences between kids from one parent homes and those who live with two parent families...WAIT...what I mean is I will never let my D's have a bad life...fight for them with every last breathe...but it is different we have to take on all the worry and nurturing by ourselves...the day to day stuff...My D is worrying about things a 4 year old shouldn't. When we are alone we have to play both the mommy and daddy role...it is very difficult and I worry everyday I will screw up my kids!