Maybe just talking with her about it might give her a sense that I'm listening to her, and that I'm open to discussion.
I think that is an excellent idea. Goes back to my thought that a little care and understanding on a NEED/WANT may be just as effective as being able to meet that NEED/WANT. Listen to what your W is saying and don't ignore it. As has been stated on many threads, indifference is often the worst thing you can do.
