Suspicion confirmed

[chaflo]

I so feel for you. I think your H is doing just like mine... trying to keep the door open to have the best of both worlds... but I may wrong. Stay dark it can only do you good. Hang in there, do whatever makes you happy cause you are the most important thing in your life (besides your kids if you have any!) They have a tendancy I find to tell us what we need to hear to keep the door open and then tells us things to get a reaction. I have found in the last couple of months he will be super nice then say something real mean.... but this is just my H and my experience. As for the legal part... I understand... I am debating D or LS.... I truly am not sure.... I guess time will tell and I will see what road to take when I get there.... still have a few months! Hang in there!