Still in the fight

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Hey; Sometimes spinning your wheels just gets you more stuck.:(

W called prior to the wonderful supper and said she would be late and we should eat with out her which we did (wouldn't have in the past). We had a great time when she got home, talked about her day, had loads of opportunity to be supportive and to validate, of course not about R or M.

When she came in, she just said how tired she was, I just told her leftovers are in the microwave. After she warmed up her dinner, we sat and talked and had a beer, she opened her cards from the kids and thanked me for the card from me. She had helped the kids get cards for me, but had not got one from herself. So I struck out this V-day, I am officially a man without a valantine.

The absolute best part was talking about the AM and getting up and showers and kids etc. I said don't worry, we will figure it out. She was stuck on showers, what time am I getting up? when would she have to be in the shower, I just told her it would be easier if we just showered together. She actually smiled and almost laughed. I was prepared for a "I don't think that will work", so imagine my surprise. The only problem is now I can't get the idea of showering with her out of my head