Jen,

Thanks for letting me know this is all normal. It helps in a really odd way! My feelings in no way dictate my life anymore, but I also don't fight my feelings either. They are real, they are valid; but they cannot rule my life.

I really do love my H, but I'm still healing. Probably will be for some time....

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!