I had my first of three phone consultations with DB Coach Jody today.

I know she has to be shaking her head after hearing my situation. I really have messed up, yet she pointed out numerous reasons to think and feel very positive about my situation.

I came away with much hope and resolution.

I don't know if I can save my marriage as that's not totally up to me. I do know I can put a lot more effort into nuturing my relationships with my children, being a great friend to my W, I have a handle on my game plan and I'm willing to go to work.

I really should have done the phone consultation thing much sooner.