Still in the fight

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Hey and what; I can see both perspectives, but Whatis said it, I am the only one working on anything. My darling W is working on HER hapiness, and HER new life.

I have contemplated just asking her, telling her that is upsetting to me and I would appreciate it if I didn't have to look at it, but w/out consequences, what is the point other than to make myself heard?(Ford and others would say THAT is a valid point, Hey you might agree as well.) As I have said elsewhere, I sometimes think that would be the real 180, pitch a fit about something, get emotional, start a fight.

I will leave it on the back burner tonight, dinner is cooking and we are waiting for her to get home from her first day at work. I guess I will find out then how the V.day card went over, but probably not. If she stays true to form, it will be no comment or "you didn't have to do that".

It is interesting that she doesn't tell me she really doesn't like it, or stop doing that, or take the card back and stick it up your a$$. Then again, neither does she say thank you.