Like a ton of bricks.

[faithisbelieving]

Lie detector? Whew...better drop that NOW!!!! Even for me...that is NOT a good thing to say to a woman..or anyone you love.

Listen, it was not fun but my W TOLD me..on her own...what happened. 10 years ago that would be an instant D for me. But...we have kids. Both of us weren't virgins when we entered this M...and my W may not be 'sick' but she is certainly confused and has issues. Does that make it right? No. For me, I can forgive what happened. At least from what I can see, it was one time, terminated quickly and my W was depressed about it, upset and it sent her back to me.

I can tell you right now that if you pursue this in this fashion, you will lose her for sure. If you need to know, you can do your own stuff. You can many times get your cell records online...you can order your itemized phone records for several months in the past and look for extended unrecognized phone calls. Best yet..just hire a P.I.

But get caught....and you'll have your pants around your ankles. Drop the lie detector my friend. Even I WOULDN'T SUBMIT MYSELF TO THAT. Go to that website and read some of David Cunningham's stuff. Would you characterize this behavior as 'alpha-male' or wimpish?

Think about it.

FIB