Heywyre, the key is in what you wrote "its really disrespectful, particularly if you are seriously working on repairing things." From what I know 8 is the only one wanting to work on repairing things. That's why I say, let the necklace go. If you take a stand you must back it up with something, but what? We must all pick our battles and I, and it's just me, wouldn't choose this one. Boundaries require consequences if broken, what would be a useful consequence here? I'll stop talking to you, I'll move out, I'll sleep in another room? Are any of those going to make the R better? I would ask "is this going to promote what I'm trying to achieve". I guess only 8 can answer that one.
