Well V Day - I was sooooooo concerned about it but it has come and (almost) gone and I am still here, all in one piece. I bought H a very simple, plain card - no mushy stuff and some chocolate kisses (he loves chocolate) I held onto them thinking if he doesn't give me anything I can always pass them on to someone else and can use the card for him next year (or never - whatever the case might be) but when I got up this morning there was some chocolate hearts sitting at my placemat on the kitchen table. I said "I thought we weren't going to get each other anything" - his response? Men don't get things for V Day, that's for women. On that note, I went into the other room and took out my card and chocolates and gave them to him. He said "I didn't get you a card, I feel bad". I said it was okay and that at least we were together, that was the main thing. He said ILY and that he would meet me for lunch today \:\)

He brought me lunch and seemed VERY pleasant - we talked, not about the R (which was nice for a change) and then he gave me a kiss, said ILY you again and went on his merry way. He also said he didn't have to work tomorrow (usually works nights) and that he would meet me for lunch tomorrow too \:\)

I sure hope this continues or ... never mind, that is thinking negative and right now I am on a positive streak so let's just leave it at that.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)