I don't know - the whole necklace thing would really not sit well with me either. I think its just too "in your face" kind of thing to do and its really disrespectful, particularly if you are seriously working on repairing things.

I know after H had his first A I made him get rid of a suede jacket I knew he loved but I also knew he wore everytime he went to see OW. For the longest time I wouldn't even drive in his vehicle, knowing full well she had sat in the same place my butt was now sitting. I know it sounds petty but I just coulnd't help it. He eventually even sold the vehicle \:\)

I don't know where he was with OW this second time around and sometimes that is a good thing but I would be choked if I saw him wearing something I knew she had given to him - I am afraid if he didn't get rid of it himself, I would secretly destroy it and play stupid if he asked where it was - I know, not very mature but who is under these circumstances?

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)