That's what my 5 y/o calls it. He has been filling gift bags for all of us for two weeks now. I warded off bad feelings today by wearing a red velvet and black lace gothic-style skirt and top today, and gave Hershey's Kisses to my students. They were so happy! It put a smile on my face too.
I will give a very quick update b/c what I really want to write about is my talk with Jim Conway.
I told H that it bothered me that he'd taken out the $5,000 w/o telling me, and he apologized. Said he'd thought of "reminding" me (huh? Last we talked about this was 6 months ago--I didn't even know if it was still in the plan). He also told me about another couple of expenses coming up so I'll be aware. So, problem solved (for now).
He's coming over tonight b/c I'm supposed to have a wine course, but the weather is getting pretty bad, so I don't think I'll go. He'll still come by b/c the kids have pressies for him.
Thank you very much to all who gave me such thoughtful and realistic advice. I'm still thinking about everything and have been taking very practical steps (like putting $ in savings) for awhile now.
I will post below about Conway.
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