He is a good dad, but he still isn't really thinking about his family or he would have given us a second chance instead of turning to another woman. She a piece of crap for putting my children threw this and she needs to focus on her own marriage ending before coming between a marriage having problems. I just hope he is thinking about everything and not just about being with her. I feel that he pulls away from me at time because he starts thinking about us and this might just be me thinking wrong.I don't want a divorce not yet and I know he is going to come back and want to proceed with it. What should I do?