Yeah, I've tried that. She knows I'm all about trying to create a system that will avoid this sort of problem. She knows I want to solve problems. To her it's all wasted breath. She's got her solution if you know what I mean. Why work on something when it's so temporary?

I've come to the understanding that she has to recognize that there's a problem and address it as such herself. I need to stop trying to fix things that are causing her distress. Just let it all go and up to her to fix if she wants to. I take care of mine, hers is up to her.


“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ”
– Albert Einstein