is she experiencing MLC symptoms? It seems you really try to do the right thing and she is in la-la land, that isnt' your faults, don't beat yourself about it. Don't say things just to shock her anymore, it will just make things worse. I know you are at the end of your rope and don't want to leave, I don't blame you, being separated is hell.
I don't know how old your daughter is, but you shouln't sleep w/her anymore, buy her one of those carousel lights, the kind that spin around slowly and have picts on it (my daughter has one w/fishes, looks like the fishes are swimming, plus, she has an extra nightlight and I leave her window shade up a bit.
I don't any more advice other than wondering if she is having a MLC, in which case you know the drill, work on yourself and wait it out.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
