W's affair is now absolutely over. Last night, W talked with an ex-girlfriend of OM's. In the context of that conversation, both of them realized that OM is much more of a liar than either had previously believed. W is deeply offended at the way he has treated his ex (even worse than he treated her) and W is now determined to expose who he really is to OM's new girlfriend "Alison", his friends, maybe even his new stepmother.
I told her that I think this makes her look vengeful and small, but she insists that they need to know and she doesn't want anyone else to be fooled by him the way she was.
Finally, though we have gotten dramatically closer in the last two months, there is still no commitment from her to work on our marriage. She's spending most nights with me now, and there's been a suitcase of clothes at my apartment for two weeks, but she isn't "moved in". I think this will come soon now, though time will tell.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
