Things sound good for you, You are doing things that I see are very positive. Not talking about R is a good thing, because you resort to FIX-IT. I like the 180, you really should keep being supportive and stay out of those OM situations that push her away. Be her friend and support her fully. The A sounds like it could be dwindling, look at some examples and see if it is: IS there contact everyday, once or 8-9 times? IS she going out of her way to see him? I would, if I didn't see that my W's OM wasn't calling at night anymore, I would see it as a positive. If she wasn't driving 2 hours all the time to see him. Things like that should keep you positive, and maybe the rush of the affair is wearing off. Who Knows?
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
